Accepting Responsibilty for Our Actions

"And David said to God, “I am the one who called for the census! I am the one who has sinned and done wrong! But these people are as innocent as sheep—what have they done?"
1 Chronicles 21:17

During the course of life, situations will not always go as planned or expected. Some will be insignificant in nature. Others will have an effect on the lives of many people. When faced with situations such as these, a leader can react in a number of ways. They can run away from the issue. They can attempt to place the blame on others. Or they can stand up and admit responsibility for their actions or decisions. A successful leader will take the latter option.

King David had such a situation arise while he was leading the people of Israel. In Chronicles 21, we read that Satan put into David’s mind the desire to take a census. The problem with implementing such a plan involved David’s pride, for the census was meant to determine the size and strength of Israel’s army. His commander Joab objected to the idea, but the king’s decision prevailed. God knew that the census wasn’t a good idea and was not happy with David because of it. At this point, David had a choice to make as the leader of the people. Would he blame Satan for his decision? Would Joab be accused of wrongdoing? Would David distance himself from the issue?

Actually, David took none of these actions. Instead, he told God, “I have sinned greatly by taking this census. Please forgive my guilt for doing this foolish thing” (1 Chronicles 21:8). His admission of wrongdoing was costly in terms of human lives, but by standing up and accepting responsibility, he prevented a worse fate.

David’s example offers a good, though costly, lesson. When a situation turns out badly, don’t run away or blame someone else. Instead, ask God for strength and admit your fault. Realize that others may suffer because of your mistake. Accept the consequences. It’s the responsible thing to do.

The only way to truly accept our own responsibility, is with the help of the Holy Spirit. Do you know Jesus? Does the Holy Spirit live in you? If you would like to know more about Jesus, click on one of the church links on this page. If you need prayer or just someone to talk with, contact me directly; rlwhitener@gmail.com Please include "prayer request" in the subject line.

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